When you google sexless marriage, you’ll find the same thing I did. Sex with your partner 10 times or less per year. From Wikipedia to the counseling professionals, sex less than 10x a year is considered sexless. If this is a conversation you have with your partner and discuss your concerns, YOU are ahead of the game! I have a friend who is intimate with his wife slightly more than 10x per year and it’s because they TALK about it. She often checks in with him to see if he needs to be tended to.
Oh yeah – this is adult content and I will use adult terms. When it comes to discussing sexless marriage, there’s no room for bullshit. Chances are there is enough BS going on in your relationship already. We’re all adults here. Bring it on!